The Rules of Love

Written by:

Richard Templar

 

نخستین قاعده های عشق درباره ی یافتنِ معشوق است. شاید بعضی از این قاعده ها برای شما نامفهوم باشد. این گنگی برای آنهایی که زبان بلد نیستند یا کم بلدند خیلی بیش تر است. چه بهتر! بهتر است هم زبان یاد بگیرند و هم خودِ کتاب را کامل بخوانند. چرا باید کتاب هایی که از پرفروش ترین های جهان اند در کشورمان با تیراژ 500 یا 1000 تایی منتشر شوند؟

 

1.      Be yourself. What’s wrong with a bit of old-fashioned civility?

2.      Get over it before you get on with it. Do yourself a favor. Go away and hide somewhere while you lick your wounds.

3.      You won’t be happy with a spouse until you can be happy on your own. Far too many people stay in unhappy relationships because they’re scared to be alone.

4.      You’ll know them when you meet them. If you aren’t sure right at the beginning, that’s normal.

5.      Choose someone who makes you laugh. A sense of humor will last you long after everything else has gone.

6.      Being less than a hundred per cent attractive is a great filter. Anyone worth having will love you for yourself.

7.      Don’t keep making the same mistakes. You have to decide whether to commit your life to a string of failed relationships.

8.      Certain people are off limits (you know who they are). I don’t know where you draw your line. But you do.

9.      You can’t change people. Everyone can be irritating from time to time in a relationship (including you).

10.   Relationships aren’t about sex. The danger is that you’ll mistake lust for love.

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