The Rules of Parenting: Part 10

آخرین بخش از قاعده های بچّه داری قاعده هایی را پیش می کشد که باید والدین در رفتار با فرزندانِ بالغ شان در نظر داشته باشند و به آنها عمل کنند:

 

1.      Back off.

2.      Wait until they ask for advice.

3.      Treat them as adults.

4.      Don’t try to be their best friend.

5.      Encourage them regardless.

6.      You can’t choose who your children love.

7.      Leave the strings off.

8.      Don’t guilt-trip them.

9.      Remember they still need you.

10.   It’s not your fault.

11.   Once a parent, always a parent.

The Rules of Parenting: Part 9

قواعد این بخش از قاعده های بچّه داری باید در اوضاع بحرانی در نظر گرفته و رعایت شود:

 

1.      Don’t use your kids as ammunition.

2.      Let them cope in their own way.

3.      Being younger doesn’t necessarily speed everything up.

4.      The aftershock can last forever.

5.      Tell them what’s going on.

6.      Teach them to fail successfully.

7.      It’s better to agree than to be right.

8.      All of your actions speak louder than any of your words.

9.      Make sure they know they’re priority number 1.

10.   You can’t fix everything.

 

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The Rules of Parenting: Part 8

این بخش از قاعده های بچّه داری قواعد مربوط به دوره ی نوجوانی است:

 

1.      Don’t panic.

2.      Remember Newton’s third law.

3.      Give them a voice.

4.      Don’t look under the mattress.

5.      Running around after them doesn’t help anybody.

6.      Don’t stand in front of a speeding train.

7.      Yelling isn’t the answer.

8.      Let them have the last word.

9.      Everything comes with strings.

10.   Show some respect for the things they care about.

11.   Adopt a healthy attitude to sex.

 

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