The Rules to Break: Part 11

در بخش پایانی کتاب قاعده هایی که باید زیر پا گذاشت ریچارد تمپلار قاعده هایی را معرفی می کند که باید حتماً آنها را رعایت کرد و زیرپاگذاشتنی نیستند. او در مورد قاعده هایی که می شود آنها را نادیده گرفت می گوید که فقط گاهی آن هم مطابق و مناسب اوضاع می شود مراعات شان نکرد.

و اما قاعده هایی که می ارزد اگر همیشه مورد نظرمان باشند و ازشان پیروی کنیم:

 

1.      No man is an island. Not only can you not avoid this, it’s all part of what makes being human so wonderful.

2.      Two wrongs don’t make a right. The smallest wrongs right up to the biggest just compound each other.

3.      When in Rome do as the Romans. It really doesn’t matter what the rules are, but it still matters that you follow them.

4.      Don’t judge a book by its cover. If I raise my expectation of other people, they respond far better to me than if I don’t.

5.      For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. If you push against someone, they’ll push back.

6.      There’s no such thing as free lunch. Keep your eyes open, and always question what the catch is.

7.      Do as you would be done by. If you want to be treated well yourself, you have a responsibility to respect other people.

8.      The pen is mightier than the sword. If you genuinely have the better case, you need to make it clear by putting together a coherent argument.

9.      Keep dry, and away from children. Sometimes the glaringly obvious needs stating.

10.   Give it time. What used to be normal has gone, and there will be a new normal.

The Rules to Break: Part 10

“Trust everyone”

1.      Trust no one.

“Sometimes you need a good moan.”

2.      There are people who moan, and people who just get on with it.

“Don’t sacrifice yourself for a relationship.”

3.      It’s the compromises that make relationships worth having.

“Feelings should be rational.”

4.      Feelings aren’t right or wrong- they just are.

“Eat, drink and be merry …”

5.      Stay alive.”

“I want doesn’t get.”

6.      Ask for what you want.

“If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”

7.      Look up.

“Find yourself a good job.”

8.      Follow your passion.

“Protect your property.”

9.      People are more important than things.

“You can’t change horses in midstream.”

10.   It’s never too late to start following the real rules.

 

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The Rules to Break: Part 9

“People will judge you by what you own.”

1.      Don’t try to keep up with the Jones.

“Hide your mistakes.”

2.      Remember, you could be wrong- someone has to be.

“Live in the present.”

3.      Keep perspective.

“Know what you want.”

4.      You don’t have to know what you want.

“Guilt tells you where you’re going wrong.”

5.      Don’t do guilt.

“Someone will make it better.”

6.      Pick yourself up (no one else will do it for you).

“Think through your problems.”

7.      Thinking hard doesn’t always help.”

“Narrow down your options.”

8.      Look at all the options.

“Stick to a plan.”

9.      Life is unpredictable.

“Trust no one.”

10.   Trust everyone.

 

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